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Osho - Transforming Lust with
Awareness gives indescribable Bliss
Osho -
Passion creates many things in you. It creates fever, it makes you more
unconscious -- more unconscious than you already are. It drags you
deeper into the mud. And with passion come hatred, illusion and desire
-- and then you are distracted from your nature. Your nature is
poisoned, your innocence is poisoned. You lose all simplicity, all
humbleness.
Beware of the poisoning by passion. Be warm, be loving -- that is a
totally different phenomenon -- but don't be full of lust. Warmth is
possible with your consciousness. A Buddha is very warm, a Jesus is very
warm, very loving. Passion has disappeared. Passion has become
transformed into compassion. Their compassion showers on you like
flowers. Just as passion poisons you, compassion purifies you.
Compassion is nectar if passion is poison. The energy that is involved
in passion can be released into compassion.
And the way to release the energy, the way to rechannel it towards
compassion, is what Buddha calls SAMMASATI -- right awareness, right
remembering; what Gurdjieff calls self-remembering, what Krishnamurti
calls simply awareness, what I call meditation. They are all the same,
different names indicating the same energy. You have to become alert,
conscious of what you are doing.
Try, when you are angry, to be conscious, and you will be surprised --
you are in for a great surprise. If you become conscious, anger
disappears. And suddenly you have found a key, you have stumbled upon a
secret. When sex dominates you and you are full of lust, close your
eyes, sit silently and meditate on this energy that is surrounding you,
this lust that is surrounding you like a cloud. Just watch it, see it. I
am not saying be against it, because if you are against it you have
already taken a standpoint. Now you cannot watch.
For watching, the necessary step, the most necessary, is not to take any
prejudice, not to conclude beforehand. Just remain silently watchful,
neither for nor against. And within minutes you will be surprised that
that great storm of lust is over. And when the storm is over, the
silence that is left behind is so profound, is so great, such a blessing
that you may not have felt it ever. No sexual experience can give you
that beauty that will come if you watch your lust and through
watchfulness the lust disappears. Then a silence comes to you which is
virgin, which belongs to the beyond, which belongs to the other shore.
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Osho discourse on Repressed Sexuality
Importance of
Commitment in a Relationship
Osho on difference in Normal Sex
and tantric Sex
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and Growth
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Osho on Sexual
suppression and freedom from Sex
What is your attitude toward Sex,
and Sex outside of Marriage
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only a few sensations of the body food, Sex
Osho - If sex is
not a natural desire in you, to force it will be a
repression
It is because of a long, repressive
society that the dirty old man exists
I Love my husband but I hate Sex,
and that creates conflict.
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